What a rainy day!!!!!!!, bandung, here I am..with unstable season, sometimes it’s cold, sometimes it’s hot…maybe like a life, like a love…
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My friends asked me how to control her love for her lover, how to be logical person when we fall in love…? I just laught at that time.. coz I’ve been become unlogical person when I’m fall in love too..
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Here my explanation, love contains 3 point, first you, second is someone you love, third is love it self..
It’s about you!!! When you fall in love, you must remember this point…about you..
- Every girl is beautiful if they have the ability to believe in themselves.
- Just be yourself, love your body and your life, live in your life, take care your own business..
- It's just better to be yourself, than to try to be some version of what you think the other person wants. -Matt Damon
- I'm the leader of my life. People can affect me, but they can't lead me.
- It's not about being who everyone else wants u to be, but being urself and finding someone who loves every bit of it. –Unknown
- Learn to love yourself first, then you can love others..
And it’s about someone you love, girls check this out..that’s the fact..
- Boys are boys, man are man, they never change.
- If you love him, you will love him just the way they are.
- Just give him your love, don’t ever asked too much.
- If you give some care to him, don’t asked him to caring you back, let him caring you like he want with his initiative.
- Don’t ever try to teach them how to love..
- let he loves you with your quality, who you are..
- Take care to him adequate, not too much, but enough to give him know that you care.
- When he asked you for somehelp, just help him, but don’t force your self to be a superhero woman who can solve all his problem. Come on girls, you’re just a human, not superhero woman, stop dreaming.
- let them finished their problem themselves.
- If he do something wrong don’t angry too much, never try to be like his mother.
And you know what man say? Here is one quotes..
Love me without restriction. Trust me without wondering. Want me without demand. Accept me how I am. -Jo Masterson
And now about love it’self ..
Sometimes we can’t deny it, when we fall, the most priority in our mind is someone whom fall in love with. That’s not a big problem..don’t deny it, but keep it care..
- It’s amazing how stupid you can be when you’re in love. -Snoopy
- Just the way you are, honest to your love, but use your head and what’s in your head too. And remember this..
- Don't show too much love to anyone. Coz sometimes, it creates a non-curable pain when they start avoiding you.
And it’s time to commitment..do you know what’s the meaning of commitment exactly? I don’t know honesty, but I do have that commitment, maybe sounds a naïve person too. Whatever it’s name, commitment is like a rope which tied you and your lover, maybe it’s a relationship, or engagement and marriage..there’s some quotes about commitment.
- Relationship is not about finding a perfect mate, but learning to see your imperfect mate perfectly.
- Open communication, Trust, and Honesty are the most important ingredients in a relationship. -Edmark Harold
- Moving forward requires a commitment to a goal, and a commitment to not allowing yourself to fall backwards!
In my opinion, commitment is some agreement, that both of you love each other professionally…Don’t ever say that you’ll love him forever, coz if you said it, it’s meaning you’re a liar…
- The most commonly broken promise: "I will love you forever."
- Sometimes it takes the loves that don't last forever to teach us the lessons that WILL
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Then she asked me what if your lover cheating and you deeply in love with him..? I just answer, never mind, maybe it’s hurt a while, I’ll forgive him, and I should go to other person who can keep my love, someone better who can love me honestly..
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What will you do? Here’s some tips, maybe it works for you, coz it work for me..
First..clean all negative feeling..Hopefully that’s only miscommunication..
- Thinking positive will make your life easier.
- Don't believe rumours. If you don't see it with your eyes, don't believe it
- Sometimes we just have to love from a distance and leave it in God's hands.
And what if the worst thing happened to you??(hopefully not)..
- Like the sunrise, some things just have to happen and all you can do is watch. -Felipe Sesoko
- How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours. -Wayne Dyer
- If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, its yours forever. If it doesn't, then it was never meant to be..
Girls do some action when alarm sign ringing…just keep your heart and love safe.. Happily ever after is in the fairy tale, in this reality world, we always meet the problem, much problem, like Lenka say’s “that trouble is a friend”..
- Ladies.. letting go is hard, especially when emotions run deep. But remember, sometimes holding on can hurt much more.
- Don't cry over the past, cry to get over the past. Don't smile to hide the pain, smile to heal the pain
- Break-up. It's not like a twitch before dying. It's a generator! To grow stronger coz God knows you deserve someone better!
- 'O' means Opportunity. That's why no 'O' in 'yesterday', one 'O' in 'today' and three 'O' in 'tomorrow'.
Finally..you don’t need worry too much with your love and your destiny, just like a life and aging process, riding your life, do the best for you and yourself. Just believe in your heart and your God. God will give you someone best to share your life with. God knows it. Don’t be scare!!!
Faith is to believe what you do not see; the reward of this faith is to see what you believe. -Saint Augustine
